Tuesday, March 13, 2012 Hire Me? :)Graduating from college/university indicates the start of working life, an entirely new phase of life for everyone. With the current education system in our country, I believe not much fresh graduates are mentally prepared to step into the Real and Cruel environment. Maybe because I was involved in recruiting field previously, it makes me realize that geez! almost 50% (or more) of the fresh graduates do not have the right attitude and mentality to actually start working. Work for the sake of money, carefree attitude, lazy, very dependent, giving tonnes of excuses for your own mistakes and the list goes on and on. You bringing that to the interview session AND working life (so happen that day is your lucky day then, or should I say the employer's bad day) = you're doomed!  If you happen to realize you're one of them, good for you! At least you know, care and will start thinking about it eventually. What's worse is that teenagers/young adults nowadays don't know what's wrong with them, and think that it's okay with their attitude. It's killing me, when I'm surrounded with those kind of young adults, I couldn't and shouldn't voice it out to them. I'm just merely a peer aite? I'm at no position to randomly went all out at a random young adult or even a normal friend. I did scolded a few interviewees though, those who really don't even bother to wear formal wear to interview, walk into the room unprepared, just literally stick to the table while answering questions. Yes, it kinda ticked me off and I really wanted them to have the RIGHT attitude! Hope they do realize I'm doing it for their own good =( It gets into my mind, again. So here I am, with a wordy tension-releasing post :P Till then! ^^
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Friday, March 9, 2012 DreamI've been abandoning this space for quite some time, it's time to wake bloggie up a little~ :) Life has been great so far, made a move on my life and has been enjoying that ever since. Making choices is always difficult, especially on the first step. I've been struggling for months, taking advices from dearly friends/experts here and there, making myself confused, looking alternatives, finding ways to accommodate and tadah! I've made my move, one step closer to get what I really want (hopefully :P).  A dream can be as simple as greeting yourself with a big wide smile everyday. Everyone has different dreams or paths to pursue. It is important to have a dream or a target to achieve for. Life is worthless if there's no goals, no? Work for the sake of getting tonnes of money doesn't bring you to somewhere you want. It will, getting you a better lifestyle, a better house (not home), security, etc etc, you name it. That's it, you'll stay stagnant, earning money repetitively, getting promoted at times, doing the same thing over and over again. If it's the simple thing you wanna do for the rest of your life, good luck with that =) I really do know some people just wanted that, simplicity. Working aimlessly is never my cup of tea. I don't, and never will settle down because of that. I wanted more, and I know some of you do too. Instead of thinking/considering about the consequences or the circumstances over and over again, just take the first move. You'll never know what you've gotten into unless you take the initiative to get into it. It may be the wrong one, you may fall down, get really grumpy, blame yourself about the shitty decision. Yeah, life is not that easy. It takes maybe 1000 wrong decision to lead you to ONE right one. It hurts, but at least you tried. You've no regrets when you look back, or a lot of what-ifs in your mind when you're thinking back when you're about age to settle down. Oh my, I've really grown up that much huh =O MAKE A MOVE PEOPLE! Never give up on something you really want. It's hard to wait, but more difficult to regret. Till when I'm inspired again. *waves*
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Tuesday, January 3, 2012 New year, new resolutionTime for new year resolutions again, reviewing the past year's resolution makes me realizes i actually did achieve something :))) here goes~~ 1. Get a first class degree and get out of KL DONE with flying colors~ ^^ and get out of KL immediately! lol 2. A semi-pro/better digital camera Checked! My Canon baby S95 is doing a very good job. HAPPY :D 3. A job with GOOD pay xD Considered a yes? It's been a very good experience and the job has been teaching me a lot. Very glad to get a very good offer from my manager, appreciate it but yea, I'm moving on!!! ^^ 4. Skincare and makeup routine Been quite good with that and still improving! 5. Long straight hair soooo checked! xD although I'm planning to chopping off one inch before CNY, still consider long? 6. Spend more time with Family Almost a year in Penang now, still doing quite fine :) Another 1-2 years time in Penang and I will be off again to another unknown country (hopefully). Penang is great, but 2011 helps me realizing that Penang will be my hometown but not really the place I'll be settling down~ 7. A trip to overseas (exclude Sg & Thai & other nearer countries!) Unfortunately, I just went to all the exclusion countries (Thai & Sg ONLY!!!!) O.O Couldn't make it for another year as well so it's off from this year resolution T______T 8. Keep in touch with friends Doing this pretty great too! got to know more friends because of the job and catching up with old friends alot too! *wink* Last but definitely NOT least, TOP PRIORITY to the max! No 9! Be lovey dovey with Dear *flying kisses* The sixth year and still going strong! :D a few minor bumps but still doing fine.. Definitely a lot more to improve for both of us, and we'll work through this, together! ^^ Very proud of what I achieved so far (EIGHT out of the nine resolutions ticked!), and for 2012, I don't think I will be making any new resolutions (keeping the 4,5,6,8,9 of course!) because I'll be going through a completely new stage of life, will only know how my resolutions would be after stepping in of course. I have made my mind, hopefully it works out, AND IT WILL BE :DD Moving out from a comfort zone is something big when there's so many unknowns here and there. Hopefully things wont go haywire pweaaase *begs* Really thanks for all the support and advice from family, BF and my girls <3 Wish me luck people, and I wish everyone the very best for 2012! Labels: life 0 Comments |
Tuesday, November 29, 2011 making decisionYea, life's about making decision BUT... can it be slightly less tougher? =/ reality vs dream  others may think it's not that hard, but it is for me T____T nobody knows what I really want nobody understands what my concern is nobody gets what I'm worrying about will be another sleepless week
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Monday, September 12, 2011 Sleepless nightWithout any particular reason, I always stayed until very late for these few weeks from 12pm to 1am to 2am at times I wonder why~ 可以有一盏明灯指示我 未来怎么走吗? *迷惘*
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Sunday, September 4, 2011 my life so farBeen thinking what to blog~~ hmm.. will randomly update on my life so far then :))) been settling at Penang since feb it's been great, with good food, family & company of course~ attended my degree convo too! always awesome to catch up with college mates to update on happenings around~ everyone's having their own plan and very glad to know that =D i think it's almost time to consider mine too ;( have been slacking for quite some time, ughhhh  doing mani & pedi for quite some time lovin' all the nude colors on mua nails! huhu <3  another gadget added for myself ;) Samsung Galaxy S2 aka baby s2 so I have baby s (Canon s95) and baby s2!! weeeeeeeee~ =)  righty, moving on to mua job then Imma outsource specialist recruiter in short tonnes of ppl asking why I'm doing this, which I am not sure why too yes, I'm a science graduate BUT im not doing related field loads of ups and downs for this 5 months+ realizes how reality can be much cruel when it comes to competition and glad to know there's still some real friends around supporting~ 朋友不需要多,真心的几个就足够 ;) photo taken with my external staffs team building!  that wraps up all my updates HAHA let's see if the blogging ohm will continue which I think definitely wont teehee~ ;*)
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Wednesday, August 31, 2011 I'm back!For no particular reason, decided to reopen this space again ;) because I'm randomly bored in the middle of the night and like, "oh, I once had a blog and I shut it off because I'm no longer blogging!" So here I am, maybe picking up the blogging habit again. Let's see~ 0 Comments |
Thursday, January 27, 2011 天天好天 雖然結尾有點太快 晴天,雨天,天天好天 帶出來很多寫實畫面 很真 很感動 菲佣和孩子 阿公和孫女 爸爸和兒子 媽媽和兒子 他們之間的感情 娓娓地道出 我被Joey弄哭好多次 從不認識阿公 到 和阿公熟絡 到 阿公教她寫毛筆字 到 她哭著盪秋千 到 她倒數可以見到阿公幾次 到 她獨自坐火車去找阿公 啊 哭得我停不了  它值得看 :) 歌也很好聽! 0 Comments |
Monday, January 24, 2011 AHHHHHH~ 讚啦!其实白羊并不算是一个智商很高的星座. 但却是个逻辑性很好的星座.很多人都说白羊很傻,有点太天真.
白羊的天真其实是它对世界,对生活的一种美好向往.但另一方面,白羊在挫败的时候,骨子里是十分阴郁的.
所以不要因为白羊天真的笑容骗了.它是一个能把笑容笑得很美的星座.但它笑的开心程度不能和内心感受有正比关系.
而说白羊傻的人,更多的时候不是在说它人很蠢,而是觉得这孩子怎么老做傻事呢.
一方面:白羊冲动的性格让它有时候做了很白痴的事,说了很白痴的话.但白羊聪明的地方也是在这里,因为它会选择适时的装傻,来避免做完傻事后的难堪~~ 同时也会让人很有亲切感.所以白羊的傻,有时候为它们赚了很多人际方面的分数.
白羊是个很聪明的孩子,很多时候,是它不想变得世故.但这和它是否世故又是另一回事了.经历过成长,谁都会世故的.但白羊是不到万不得以,不会运用这种世故的眼光看人的.
所以,不要在白羊面前说些话中带刺的话,白羊可能会在你面前乐呵呵的笑,但它心里已经把你从朋友这个名号上排除了. 不过它还是不会做伤害你的事,因为变成白羊的朋友,它会为你赴汤蹈火.如果对它来说不算朋友,它的英雄主义还是继续发扬,对你拔刀相助的.
或许就是因为白羊太聪明,当它脑子开始转的时候,她会就陷入自己的死胡同里.别的人,想多了,可能会觉得好烦呀,然后就干脆不想了.
但 白羊开始思考的时候,她就会往死里想,非要想清楚不可.就算偶尔休息一下,也只是暂时的.所以白羊是个心事沉重的孩子. 这也导致了它情绪的变化无常. 但很可悲的事,星座上写白羊的时候,总是强调它的"天真". 这也让所有人对白羊有一种天真单纯的印象.也就忽略了"原来白羊也有这么感性,深度思考的时候啊."
所以白羊是个不能被理解的星座,因为她的聪明,也因为它的不善于表达.
白羊不管男生还是女生,都是偏男性化的.但他们脑子里藏着的思想都需要用文绉绉的语言来表达.而用语言表达出这些话,白羊们会觉得肉麻兮兮的,而且特别娇 情,说出口都变了味道了. 以至于白羊偏爱用文字表达. 至少不乐意说出口.一般说出来之前都要用很长时间来说服自己.而且还要找一些适当的词来让偏文艺性的谈话变得中性一点...
否则他们就要全身不舒服了...
最后一点,白羊是个极度没有安全感的人.正如白羊代表孩童时期一样.当一个小孩午睡醒来发现自己一个人的时候,会极度不安全感.而白羊就是这样一个孩子. 白羊需要被人守护.
表面上看,白羊是个喜欢守护别人的人. 但是他在心里一直希望他的守护可以换来同等的对待. 白羊很需要被爱.
需要时刻被人提醒:亲爱的白羊,大家都爱着你呢.
所以白羊不太喜欢谈平淡的爱情.因为有时候他们会很迷茫,是不是爱变淡了.变没了. 这时它就要陷入思考中了...
虽然也有白羊太自我伤害到别人的例子.我们就还用孩子来说明吧.就像一个小孩,他常常会做一些让别人担心的事,或是惹得爱他的人很难过. 但他终究还是在淘气完之后,安静的回到自己应该呆的地方. 他只是太淘气了一点..
而且白羊喜欢看别人心疼他的样子. 就像小孩子受伤了,就喜欢跑到妈妈那边给妈妈看一样,看着妈妈心痛的表情,白羊会很开心.甚至会觉得摔一下也值得的~~ 其实这一切,都是白羊爱别人的表现.它只想在他爱的人面前脆弱.甚至软弱一下.
所以,小孩子的教育犹为重要~~ 对白羊的照顾,更应该细致.它是个有孩子一般的心灵,却有大人一般的思想负担.
正因为他身处于矛盾之中. 它的压力,更是无形的让它迷茫和无助..
白羊是个孩子,而且是个内心深处藏满忧郁的孩子.其它星座的忧郁是一面了然的.但白羊却只能意会,不可言传. 0 Comments |
Friday, January 7, 2011 clock's ticking!and 10 more days until we're free from EVERYTHING!! Yea, totally ignore the torturous memorizing and squeezing brain juices parts :)  Cant wait for 17th of Jan, 4.00pm sharp! *wink* Good luck to everyone who's struggling for the final final final examination! All the best people..
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Wednesday, January 5, 2011 記住23條了，你就成熟了 [轉發]1、 遇到不想回答的問題 ：直視對方的眼睛 ，微笑、 沉默 。 2 、走路抬頭挺胸，心情不好時，不想跟人招呼，點頭微笑，逕直走過 。 3 、請記得 ：好朋友的定義是，你混的好，他打心眼裡為你開心，你混的不好，他由衷的為你著急 。 4 、做自己的決定 ，然後準備好承擔後果 。從一開始就提醒自己 ，世上沒有後悔藥吃， 而我永遠有個 B計劃。 5、 自己分內的事情 ，努力做到一百分 。 6 、接受自己不過是個"小小的我" ，但眼裡要能夠悅納"大大的世界" 。 7、 如果你真的喜歡一個人，就給他自由。如果他能回到你身邊，他就是你的，如果他沒有回來，那他也永遠不屬於你。 8 、不要試圖給自己找任何借口，錯誤面前沒人愛聽那些借口。 9 、不要隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的 。 10 、不說謊話 ，因為總有被拆穿的一天。 11 、別低估任何人。 12 、你沒那麼多觀眾 ，別那麼累 。 13、 過去的事情可以不忘記 ，但一定要放下。 14 、別人說的記在腦袋裡，而自己的， 則放在心裡。 15 、社會是有等級的， 很多事不公平， 別抱怨 ，因為沒有用 。 16 、你永遠沒有你自己想像中那麼重要 。 17 、錢能解決的問題統統不叫問題。 18 、無論何時說"我愛你"， 請真心實意， 無論何時說"對不起"， 請看著對方的眼睛。 19、 永遠不要以貌取人，慢慢地說，但要迅速地想。 20 、找點時間，單獨呆會兒 。 21、 不是自己的東西不要 ，就是再喜歡也不行 ，要懂得放棄 。 22 、不要覺得是生活虧欠了你 ，其實是我做的努力不夠 。 23 、努力向前，再努力向前，再努力一下下，願望就會實現 ！ 24.永遠沒有堅持到底的失敗，也不會有半途而廢的成功。 25.三人行必有我師，沒有人會比你弱，好學、上進的心態。多問問自己："我努力了沒有？"。 嗯嗯 學習中.. 0 Comments |
Tuesday, January 4, 2011 我假裝無所謂才看不到心被擰碎 0 Comments |
Saturday, January 1, 2011 twenty-oh-eleven! Happy 2011 everyone :) Let bygones be bygones and take a step further in your life! stay healthy & happy everyday~ =D Bon voyage 2010, and Welcome 2011 ^^ I'm looking forward for an exciting journey to begin in my life screams freedom after 17th of Jan~ Cant wait!
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Thursday, December 30, 2010 New year resolutionsFeel like doing resolutions for 2011 :) It's gonna be the very first year stepping out of study life and be independent so I'm looking forward to it! hehe let's c how many resolutions I can think of 1. Get a first class degree and get out of KL I've been mentioning all over and yea, still my MAIN resolution! teehee.. The final semester is super tough and I hope everyone'll be very very lucky to pass! ^^ and I'm not gonna work in KL so buhbye Setapak *smiles BROADLY* 2. A semi-pro/better digital camera It's hard to jot down every little details in the life, and life's short! so I'll get a cam asap, with excellent soft skin mode for countless camwhore pictures :D 3. A job with GOOD pay xD Hopefully it's not hard! :( I have almost zero experience in permanent job hunting, and i think my interview skills are weak! Nothing to impress T.T 4. Skincare and makeup routine Really really important to get the suitable products for everything! Try to learn some makeup skills as well :) weeeeee~ 5. Long straight hair MUST not cut/curl my hair for at least a year. Cant guarantee for the dying part cuz I'm pretty sure I'll dye my hair xD hahaha I want long silky shiny smooth straight hair for 2011~ 6. Spend more time with Family Four years of missing all the occasions at home makes me emo! Always caught up with tonnes of workload and not being able to spend some leisure time with the family is not fun at all. Will try to get a job in Penang hopefully and have fun with family :) 7. A trip to overseas (exclude Sg & Thai & other nearer countries!) Wanted to go to Taiwan!! to meet another Ting there~ ^^ I was once told that there'll be SEVEN of you scattered all around the world! pretty amazing huh.. haha It's cool to be quite bonded with a girl u've never seen before, still you can pour your feelings and she DID feel for you! AND of course all the food, shopping and everything~ xP 8. Keep in touch with friends Keep me updated with every thing in your life kay? YES, ALL OF YOU! =) We need to keep catching up ya! =D sharing stories and gossips are fun and I really look forward for all those outings, ALL over Malaysia or overseas! Last but definitely NOT least, TOP PRIORITY to the max! No 9! Be lovey dovey with Dear *flying kisses* Keep melting me all the time ya! ;*) I've heard some saying that 21 is still not the age to settle down with someone yet, it's time to explore and enjoy with exciting love experiences! In my opinion, it's not the time that matters but the person. Everything's right with the right guy at the right timing. So yea, let's have fun attached~ GOOD LUCK and do share your new year resolutions! =) |
Tuesday, December 28, 2010 大人有時候 大人不見得都是對的 他們見過世面 可是比小孩更幼稚 他們吃鹽多過我吃飯 但比小孩更計較 有錢使得鬼推磨 文具店老闆發揮的淋漓盡致 在下佩服 五十塊錢 一個小時好 二十五塊錢 請兩天后再來 不付錢萬萬不能 只要付錢 啥都口以! 真的 蝦米人都有啦 呼呼~ 偶啊 是個大人了 偶很大量 :) 因爲偶相信 生氣會短命啦 *wink*
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Thursday, December 23, 2010 inspiring Pencil: I'm sorry....Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong. Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt bcos of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time. Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :) Appreciate everyone around you, and a very very happy holidays to everyone! :D It's happy season, so SMILE ^^
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Tuesday, December 21, 2010 [转发] 是时间主宰爱情即使多忙,讀吧! 它值得 :) 相信我 梁靜茹結婚了。 證婚人是李宗盛，伴娘是戴佩妮，蔡健雅。瑪莎沒有收到婚禮邀請，他說他不會去。 她和瑪莎就這樣形同陌路了。 梁靜茹最終也沒有和瑪莎在一起。 那陣子，劉燁結婚了。 他在婚禮前，把自己關起來哭了好長時間。 曾經說著：“這輩子最幸福的事，就是娶謝娜，只要她願意嫁給我，我現在就可以娶她“ 的人就這樣和另外一個女人結婚了。 劉燁說，他一輩子都不會忘了謝娜。 可是這樣的話聽著都會覺得傷感。 劉燁最終也沒有和謝娜在一起。 那個說著非謝娜不娶的劉燁，也結婚了，娶了一個法國女人。 看著謝娜的自傳裡有一部分是說她和劉燁的。 6年的感情讓她們彼此都成長了不少。 謝娜說他們在大家都不看好的時候堅強的在一起，卻在大家都對他們祝福的時候分開了。 6年！ 那個說著非李大齊不嫁的周迅，也單身了。 不知道是為什麼，只知道，他們5年的感情，會成為他們彼此生命中最精彩的時光。 5年！ 之前辛曉琪在演唱會上，再次唱響那首“領悟“時，哭的如此傷心，痛徹心扉。 辛曉琪最終也沒有和愛的人在一起，想必是真的領悟了。 我們，一直都是在輸給時間。 所以說，這年頭，還有什麼能讓我們動心，讓我們相信呢。 陳昇曾做過件很煽情的事。 他提前一年預售了自己演唱會的門票，僅限情侶購買，一人的價格可以獲得兩個席位。 但是，一份情侶券分為男生券和女生券。 戀人雙方各自保存屬於自己的那張券，一年後，兩張券合在一起才能奏效。 票當然賣得很快，也許這個是戀人雙方證明自己愛情的方式吧。 “我們要在一起一輩子呢。” “一年，算什麼。” …… 這場演唱會的名字叫做：明年你還愛我嗎？ 聽似很簡單的疑問句，實現起來，卻被赤裸裸的現實擊敗。 到了第二年，陳昇專設的情侶席位，果然空了好多位子。 他面對著那一個個空板凳，臉上帶著怪異的歉意，唱了最後一首歌：把悲傷留給自己 去年我們曾牽手走過很多地方，在車站擁抱，一起看電影，往彼此的嘴巴里塞零食和飲料，一起幻想明年的這個時候，甚至是很多很多年以後，我們在幹嘛，要幹嘛。 可是感情的脆弱我們誰也想不到。 這一秒幸福，下一秒就可以崩潰。 戀情，崩盤起來，往往太措手不及。 再多的甜言蜜語，累積起來也敵不過分手兩個字。 世界上有太多的悲哀。 曾經多麼驕傲的要一起幸福一輩子，到頭來卻剩下自己。 不想再奢望什麼了，一個人靜靜的躲在角落裡，欣賞你們的幸福。 夜的黑暗與我做伴，躲在被窩裡，真的體會到了思念的痛，痛卻不能說... 其實自己不是那麼矯情的，其實難過不想告訴任何人的... 漸漸發現，痛，就自己忍著。 即使說，也無從說起... 只想問，你能愛我多久... 相戀多年的人們就這樣形同陌路，彼此生活。 或許，他們並不是不愛對方了，而是不能給對方各自要的生活。 應該相信，他們或許依然愛著對方。 只是，一個不懂得怎麼去愛，一個相愛卻無能為力。 生活就是這樣，最終相守到老的人，也許並不是那個曾經許下山盟海誓，承諾白頭偕老，暗自發誓這輩子只愛她一個的人。 終究，終究時間會帶走一切。 到底是什麼讓我們鬆開了彼此的手？ 到底是什麼讓我們放棄了自己，放棄了對方？ 會一直說真的沒什麼，然後又對著別人的故事沉默。 表面終究會歸於平靜，只是內心的波濤洶湧卻不為人知。 只有自己才知道，誰是自己真正愛的那個人，誰又是傷了自己的那個人。 所以最後的最後，當我們都有了彼此的歸屬，你只能是我記憶中模糊地剪影而已。 一個女人突然決絕的跟相愛五年的男友分了手，閃電般嫁了他人。 她說她要結婚，她實在等不起了，而他雖然愛她，卻根本沒有一點這方面的意思。 過了幾年，男人也結婚了。 那個新娘其實未必比她出色多少，或者這一次他的愛有多麼深，只不過她出現的時機實在太好了，剛剛好在他萌生倦意想安定下來的時候。 於是，不需要什麼更好的理由了，她來得正是時候，那麼，就是她了。 其實我們尋尋覓覓了那麼久，遍嚐每一次愛情的甜蜜與艱辛，而最後選擇的愛人，不過就是在我們心意動時，經過身邊的那一個。 什麼青梅竹馬，什麼心有靈犀，什麼一見鍾情，都不過是些錦上添花的藉口， 時間才是冥冥中一切的主宰。 回首往事的時候，想起那些如流星般劃過生命的愛情，我們常常會把彼此的錯過歸咎為緣分。 其實說到底，緣分是那麼虛幻抽象的一個概念， 真正影響我們的，往往就是那一時三刻相遇與相愛的時機。 男女之間的交往，充滿了猶疑忐忑的不確定與欲言又止的矜持，一個小小的變數，就可以完全改變選擇的方向。 如果你出現的早一點，也許她就不會和另一個人十指緊扣;又或者相遇的再晚一點，晚到兩個人在各自的愛情經歷中慢慢學會了包容和體諒，善待和妥協。 在你最美麗的時候，你遇見了誰？ 在你深愛一個人的時候，她又陪在誰身邊？ 在你心靈最脆弱的時候，又是誰在與她同行 愛情到底給了你多少時間，去相遇和分離，去選擇和後悔？ 重溫“大話西遊”看到紫霞深愛至尊寶的時候，他心心念念的尋找他的白晶晶，而當他終於看到了她留在心裡的那一滴淚，卻已經失去了選擇的權利。 每一次看到他潛入另一個人的身體，去償還前世欠她的一句承諾，再看他在夕陽下孤獨的走遠，總是情不自禁的想要落淚。 不是不心動，不是不後悔，但已經沒有時間，再去相擁。 如果愛一個人而無法在一起，相愛卻無法在適當的時間相遇，如果你愛了，卻愛不對時間，除了珍藏那一滴心底的淚，無言的走遠，你又能有什麼選擇？ 時間的荒野，沒有早一步也沒有晚一步， 於千萬人之中，去邂逅自己的愛人，那是太難得的緣分， 更多的時候，我們只是在彼此不斷的錯過，錯過了楊花飄飛的春，又錯過了楓葉瑟索的秋， 直到漫天白雪，年華不再， 在一次次的心酸感嘆之後，才能終於了解。 即使真摯，即使親密，即使兩個人都已是心有戚戚，我們的愛，依然需要時間來成全和考驗。 這世界有著太多這樣那樣的限制與隱秘的禁忌，又有太多難以預測的變故和身不由己的離離合合，一個轉身，也許就已經一輩子錯過。 多年以後，才會參透所有的爭取和努力，都抵不過命運開的一個玩笑。 上帝在雲端只眨了一眨眼，所有的結局，就都已經完全改變...... 後記： 20歲的時候愛上他的帥氣， 22歲離開他因為他的孩子氣 然後你遇到了30歲的人， 沒有陽光帥氣的外表，卻擁有成熟和穩重讓你安心的一切。 你怎樣任性耍賴30的他都會讓著你， 你怎樣揮霍發洩30的他都會罩著你。 你眼中的30是他長大的模樣，30眼中的你是他年輕時的她。 30曾經像22的他一樣孩子氣，然後她離開了30 22的他30歲的時候也會擁有一個22歲的女孩，事情總是這樣循環往復 十年後當這個男孩蛻變成一個2230男人， 他要感謝你，你的離開讓他學會了成熟。 感觸： 聽說你結婚了，聽說你有孩子了，聽說你們過的很開心 多好的事情，我為你開心，自己卻有點後悔。 如果新郎是我，你在婚禮上是不是更美。 多少年沒見了，我卻還是會記得你， 多少年過去了，你卻依然在我的心裡。 我們為自己設了個圈，自己繞阿繞的，總也出不了這個圈。 明年，你還愛我麼。 讀后感 很有感覺,讀完就想立即轉發的文章 曾經自己也傻傻的兜了好幾圈 然後發現那個圈根本就不屬於我 豁然開朗后的我 很幸福 *love* 明年 你一定會愛著我 =)
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Friday, December 10, 2010 breath in, breath out it feels so right to talk to a person who understands you! It's exactly what I needed. :) Life's a roller coaster ride full of ups and downs, i'm aware of that. and I'll try my best to enjoy every bit of it! there'll be some passerby who doesn't know your life yet love to mess up with they're bumps. I'll walk through it it's bumpy, but it'll come to an end and that's what makes my life interesting :D I love understanding people! TQ TQ TQ =)
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Monday, December 6, 2010 eye contact I've always been quite particular with eye contact with people. For me, it's like the most important communication skill ever. Hmmm, but not much holding the same opinion with me i guess. I don't think I can accept "shy" as an excuse of not looking into ones eyes. It's a sign of you respecting the one you're talking to? How're you suppose to talk with eyes browsing around other places?! But alot of people seems very good at this, which kinda pisses me off :( "Hey.. How're you?" *smile and look into ones eyes.* "Hey.. How're you?" *playing with hands and looking elsewhere* Huge difference right?! And you're definitely giving ppl bad impression when you don't look into ones eyes during important interviews/presentations/meetings. and you're 100% giving me bad impression, slash slash slash. *shakes head* another one, stuck between topics. It sucks during conversations, but please reply k? Don't just leave hanging there. "I think the weather is pretty warm" *fanning oneself with hand* "....." *pretend nothing happens and continue to walk* faints. I don't likey. At least please, answer something like "yalo" before jumping into another topic k? Don't pretend like I never talked. It's like being ignored completely. It's awkward O: I'm so ma fan like that. but i thought it's a norm to do so? apparently not here. but hey, I'll try live with it =) I'm flexible like that! *wink* Labels: college, friend, life, random 0 Comments |
Thursday, December 2, 2010 我以爲 原來 付出多少 並不代表收穫多少 我懂了 也 累了 或許 是我自以爲是 是我笨笨地掏心掏肺 都是我的問題 嗯 懂了 付出 不期待回報多寡 好難 可是我學!
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